Mira Kirshenbaum looks deep into why normal people have affairs and categorizes the reasons into 17 “types” of affairs!
cheating affairs happen more often that you might like to think – The pressure to stay in a marriage that is not working increase the anxiety about leaving relationships. This adds motivation to have an affiar at the risk of being that person you dont want to be. I search of satisfying ones sexual needs many use the web to find sex online in the attempt to be secrative.
Good people have affairs for many reasons and Mira helps those couples who are hurt by these affairs to overcome them and realise that this is a process which is more normal than they think.
Hurtful comments, trust issues and broken promises plus emotions that one cannot control are all present during these tough times. An affair within a perfectly good stable marriage with kids is unbelievably tough to deal with. You are town between your love for your kids and the hate you feel at having your heart broken. You trusted someone with your most inner secrets and they betrayed that trust.
This book has many great reviews from couples in the middle of tough times – the book does not condone cheating in any way and tries to open up the floor for debate with useful tools and strategies on how to cope.
This book can help anyone that has been hit with a divorce and is unsure of how to cope with the emotions and decisions involved.